Happy Thanksgiving... a few days late.

This Thanksgiving was mine and Alex's very first Turkey day as a married couple. When we woke up, or when I woke up, I took a shower and started getting ready to go over to my mom's for breakfast, and I was actually excited because I knew I didnt have to work for a few days!!! YaY!! We were due over there at 10ish, and knowing my mom I knew if we showed up at like 10:30, that would be fine. At 9:30 I told Alex it was time to get up, and being the sleepy head that he is, he didnt listen. Then at 9:45, I told him again he needed to be up. I could feel myself getting crabby but I didn't want to be that way, so I acted fine. We made it over there by 10:30, and my mom wasnt even finished, so that was ok. Breakfast was tastey too! It was nice because my dad was there, so I got to spend time with him as well. We left to go to Springfield, Illinois to visit Alex's family. We had to eat a second meal there, but it was turkey dinner and not breakfast so it was easier to eat because it wasnt like eating the same thing twice. Luckilly I didnt PIG out each time so i was ok. I was fine til I started having mad stomache issues and had to use the bathroom a few times, which sucked but then it was time to leave. Due to my problem, I had to stop at a gas station because I was sooo uncomfortable using their bathroom... but dont worry, I was fine after that haha!!! So then we drove back to the Stl and went to my grandmas. It was fun there, besides the fact that we had to get there so late, but oh well. By that time, i only had food in my belly for my grandma's amazing fruit salad and I made us plates for leftovers the next day. By the time we got home, I watched some TV, went to bed and Alex asked me, "was this a good first thanksgiving being married?" and I dont know, I thought it was soo sweet because all day I wasnt really thinking of it like that, I didnt really have expectations like that. But it was, it was really special. We got along so well, even him being a slowpoke getting ready, or no fights in the car driving for a few hours.... it was a good day. I have so much to be greatful for. Even today we had to do a 4th Thanksgiving, and Alex went, no complaints or anything. I am so thankful for him. What a good first turkey day! or... weekend.

update on church!

Hey everybody... I just want to let you know that Alex and I have gone to church together 3 weeks in a row. To some of you, that's nothing but to me, it's a big deal. I have always been a regular churchgoer, but I would say since just before I got married, the number of times I went started to dwindle down. No reason really, other than that it was the only day I got to sleep in and like I said before, Alex works most Sundays and I would have to go by myself. Even in our dating relationship, we only went together every once in awhile and that was because for four years, he was away at school. So like I said, we made a decision that we would go every week, and so we have. I feel so much better. We are going to THE JOURNEY, and it's great for us. We found a neutral place to go, not his family's church, not mine, but this is ours and we are happy. My mood has even been better too! I just thought you would like to know that!!!!!!!!

a new day

I have been feeling very convicted lately because I haven't been going to church. It's kind of like exercising. When you have been on a regimen and you're working out all the time you don't want to skip a day. But, as you skip more days its easier to stop. Then you start noticing that you are packing on the pounds, you know it is time to get back on track. I used to go to church every Sunday and I felt horrible if I missed one day. But as it happens more often, the easier it was for me to miss it. Well, I am packing on the pounds with my relationship with God and I need to get back to my old regimen. Alex and I got up for church today and we decided that we will go every week if it means we have to go on a Saturday night if we cant go Sunday morning, or even Sunday night too. I know that church is important for me, and my marriage. And sometimes things come up, but I am definitely making sure its a way of life again.